The Secret of Dating with Confidence

The Secret of Dating with Confidence

When you fixate on things you cannot control, such as another person’s behavior or thought process, you get a sense of being helpless.

Dating from a place of confidence is good for you. You are less likely to lose yourself in someone or accept poor treatment when you have an esteemed perception of self.

See if some of the actions below can be helpful for you to make the dating experience pleasant and secure.

1. Detach your self-worth from whether you have a partner.

By knowing yourself, you are less reliant on other’s approval and any possible rejections will not matter as much. Detach your self-image from your relationship status. Whether you have a partner or not has nothing to do with you being an amazing person who you truly are.

2. Get comfortable alone and get to know thyself.

It is imperative that we learn about ourselves — our likes, desires, and needs, without the influence of others, while we are alone. Much of being confident is knowing who you are.

3. When on a date, consider whether you like the other person instead of if they like you.

Avoid inquiring too much about exes, requesting to see pictures of them, or otherwise measuring yourself against a date’s past lovers. Confident people are not overly concerned with comparison. Remember, you are a catch, too.

4. Stay in the present moment.

Let the dating progress organically. Be open-minded and authentic, try not to predetermine how things will go. Just enjoy the moment.

Trust that your love life will unfold as it should in due time, there is nothing to fear and no place for uncertainty.

The secret to dating from a place of confidence is to trust yourself and the timing of your life.

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